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Showing posts with label Motivation. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Motivation. Show all posts
Rewards
Was reading some articles now and come across some pharagraph I love.
Most people don't work to their potential unless they know their efforts are appreaciated and the world is full of under-appreciated , over-worked employees looking for new job. So keep employees happy with great rewards programme.
Reward excellent behaviour to create a culture of exccellent performance.
Most people don't work to their potential unless they know their efforts are appreaciated and the world is full of under-appreciated , over-worked employees looking for new job. So keep employees happy with great rewards programme.
Reward excellent behaviour to create a culture of exccellent performance.
Just Do It
Read through one of the blog today, somehow it makes me think some ppl will eventually take the hardest step in their relationship either go or let go.
You maybe happily marriage with children but in the end, is that the real happiness you want.You will think twice after watch Eat Pray Love by Julia Roberts.
Every day you’ll get stronger and discover who you are and what you really want in a partner. Staying in a relationship when you are too young stops you from growing in some ways and hinders you becoming who you really are.
High school sweetheart or couple in relationship for 10years. I believe there is no more sparks and they just like the boring couple at home and sex eventually will become dull and bored. No offence to all the couple outthere. I have read some forum, where some of the couple and even husband complaint on their boring marriage and sex life.Of course there are some end with good ending. Happily ever after.
There’s no point in settling only to regret it for the rest of your life, sometimes the comfort and familiarity becomes overwhelming and you forget what else is out there.
Go out and do what you like to do before it too late to regret.
For your reading pleasure
Have you ever, at any one time, had the feeling that life is bad, real bad, and you wish you were in another situation?
You find life make things difficult for you, work sucks, life sucks, everything seems to go wrong...
Read the following story... it may change your views about life:
After a conversation with one of my friends, he told me despite taking 2 jobs, he brings back barely above 1K per month, he is happy as he is.
I wonder how he can be as happy as he is considering he has to skimp his life with the low pay to support a pair of old parents, in-laws, a wife, 2 daughters and the many bills of a household.
He explained that it was through one incident that he saw in India that happened a few years ago when he was really feeling low and touring India after a major setback.
He said that right in front of his very eyes he saw an Indian mother chop off her child's right hand with a chopper. The helplessness in the mother's eyes, the scream of pain from the innocent 4-year-old child haunted him until today.
You may ask why did the mother do so; had the child been naughty, had the child's hand been infected?? No, it was done for two simple words- - -TO BEG!
The desperate mother deliberately caused the child to be handicapped so that the child could go out to the streets to beg.
Taken aback by the scene, he dropped a piece of bread he was eating half-way. And almost instantly, a flock 5 or 6 children swamped towards this small piece of bread which was covered with sand, robbing bits from one another. The natural reaction of hunger.
Stricken by the happenings, he instructed his guide to drive him to the nearest bakery. He arrived at two bakeries and bought every single loaf of bread he found in the bakeries. The owner was dumbfounded but willingly sold everything. He spent less than $100 to obtain about 400 loaves of bread (this is less than $0.25 per loaf) and spent another $100 to get daily necessities.
Off he went in the truck full of bread into the streets. As he distributed the bread and necessities to the children (mostly handicapped) and a few adults, he received cheers and bows from these unfortunate. For the first time in his life he wondered how people can give up their dignity for a loaf of bread which cost less than $0.25.
He began to tell himself how fortunate he is. How fortunate he is to be able to have a complete body, have a job! , have a family, have the chance to complain what food is nice and what isn't nice, have the chance to be clothed, have the many things that these people in front of him are deprived of...
Now I begin to think and feel it, too! Was my life really that bad? Perhaps... no, I should not feel bad at all... What about you? Maybe the next time you think you are, think about the child who lost one hand to beg on the streets.
"Contentment is not the fulfillment of what you want, it is the realization of how much you already have."
When the door of happiness closes, another opens, but often times we look so long at the closed door that we don't see the one which has been opened for us.
It's true that we don't know what we've got until we lose it, but it's also true that! we don't know what we've been missing until it arrives.
The happiest of people don't necessarily have the best of everything; they just make the most of everything that comes along their way.
The brightest future will always be based on a forgotten past, you can't go on well in life until you let go of your past failures and heartaches.
You find life make things difficult for you, work sucks, life sucks, everything seems to go wrong...
Read the following story... it may change your views about life:
After a conversation with one of my friends, he told me despite taking 2 jobs, he brings back barely above 1K per month, he is happy as he is.
I wonder how he can be as happy as he is considering he has to skimp his life with the low pay to support a pair of old parents, in-laws, a wife, 2 daughters and the many bills of a household.
He explained that it was through one incident that he saw in India that happened a few years ago when he was really feeling low and touring India after a major setback.
He said that right in front of his very eyes he saw an Indian mother chop off her child's right hand with a chopper. The helplessness in the mother's eyes, the scream of pain from the innocent 4-year-old child haunted him until today.
You may ask why did the mother do so; had the child been naughty, had the child's hand been infected?? No, it was done for two simple words- - -TO BEG!
The desperate mother deliberately caused the child to be handicapped so that the child could go out to the streets to beg.
Taken aback by the scene, he dropped a piece of bread he was eating half-way. And almost instantly, a flock 5 or 6 children swamped towards this small piece of bread which was covered with sand, robbing bits from one another. The natural reaction of hunger.
Stricken by the happenings, he instructed his guide to drive him to the nearest bakery. He arrived at two bakeries and bought every single loaf of bread he found in the bakeries. The owner was dumbfounded but willingly sold everything. He spent less than $100 to obtain about 400 loaves of bread (this is less than $0.25 per loaf) and spent another $100 to get daily necessities.
Off he went in the truck full of bread into the streets. As he distributed the bread and necessities to the children (mostly handicapped) and a few adults, he received cheers and bows from these unfortunate. For the first time in his life he wondered how people can give up their dignity for a loaf of bread which cost less than $0.25.
He began to tell himself how fortunate he is. How fortunate he is to be able to have a complete body, have a job! , have a family, have the chance to complain what food is nice and what isn't nice, have the chance to be clothed, have the many things that these people in front of him are deprived of...
Now I begin to think and feel it, too! Was my life really that bad? Perhaps... no, I should not feel bad at all... What about you? Maybe the next time you think you are, think about the child who lost one hand to beg on the streets.
"Contentment is not the fulfillment of what you want, it is the realization of how much you already have."
When the door of happiness closes, another opens, but often times we look so long at the closed door that we don't see the one which has been opened for us.
It's true that we don't know what we've got until we lose it, but it's also true that! we don't know what we've been missing until it arrives.
The happiest of people don't necessarily have the best of everything; they just make the most of everything that comes along their way.
The brightest future will always be based on a forgotten past, you can't go on well in life until you let go of your past failures and heartaches.
Love ♥ or Bun
Love or Bun aka Money
Both are intertwined.We need love to live a meaningful life, have relationships, because we need to have sense of attachment. At the sametime , we need money to support our basic living.
Which is more important?? Money is a sensitive topic. Human try to avoid the conversation because it will create unhappiness, unpleasantness and misunderstand between your partners, family and friends. I totally agreed with this.
For younger generation, love is important but for us the older generation..we have growth up both phsically and mentally. Bun are definetely more important nowadays. With bun you can find love too. Not to said that we are greedy but we still need money to go for dating, food, travel and etc. For me, there is no such thing as 'yau ching yam sui bao' lor. But I will said how you spend your money depends how you feel and think. Our belief in money and how we manage our money are influence by our family, lifestyle, exposure and environment in which we grew up and currently living.Therefore, it is unusual to have both couple have similar thoughts about managing money but love and money can make a blissful relantionship.
Sometimes it is our faith ... either you are rich, moderate or poor. You just can't ignore it.....
tien arrrrrrrrr !!!!!!!!!
Both are intertwined.We need love to live a meaningful life, have relationships, because we need to have sense of attachment. At the sametime , we need money to support our basic living.
Which is more important?? Money is a sensitive topic. Human try to avoid the conversation because it will create unhappiness, unpleasantness and misunderstand between your partners, family and friends. I totally agreed with this.
For younger generation, love is important but for us the older generation..we have growth up both phsically and mentally. Bun are definetely more important nowadays. With bun you can find love too. Not to said that we are greedy but we still need money to go for dating, food, travel and etc. For me, there is no such thing as 'yau ching yam sui bao' lor. But I will said how you spend your money depends how you feel and think. Our belief in money and how we manage our money are influence by our family, lifestyle, exposure and environment in which we grew up and currently living.Therefore, it is unusual to have both couple have similar thoughts about managing money but love and money can make a blissful relantionship.
Sometimes it is our faith ... either you are rich, moderate or poor. You just can't ignore it.....
tien arrrrrrrrr !!!!!!!!!
How to spice up your life
I am not so feeling well today.There is a symptom of cough & sore throat. I need to take leave and rest...
Sitting in front of my pc alone in da room @ office make me feel so empty. Everyone have something missing in their life and me too. The missing things eventually will come to us and we did no need to go and search for it although we try too :p
So, what is missing from your life ? I probably can lend a telescope for you to seach further or torch light to search among the darkness. If not, try other way to make your life more interesting.
How to spice up your life? To be happy we need to find a balance between comfort and adventure. If you keep on living your life on predictable styles, it feels boring and there is no room for improvement. To move on or not is up to you.
As for me, I want to improve and I want my ppl besides me happy and improve as well. Not necessary to spend alots money to make you happy. Have some activities with your friends or your love. It's is important to move out from the comfort zone. For some ppl, just a little maybe enough. (I guess this is me coz am lazy..hahahaha) Improve doesn't mean need to change yourself. Personally, I dont really like ppl who try to change the way I am. I am who I am. wtf
Sitting in front of my pc alone in da room @ office make me feel so empty. Everyone have something missing in their life and me too. The missing things eventually will come to us and we did no need to go and search for it although we try too :p
So, what is missing from your life ? I probably can lend a telescope for you to seach further or torch light to search among the darkness. If not, try other way to make your life more interesting.
How to spice up your life? To be happy we need to find a balance between comfort and adventure. If you keep on living your life on predictable styles, it feels boring and there is no room for improvement. To move on or not is up to you.
As for me, I want to improve and I want my ppl besides me happy and improve as well. Not necessary to spend alots money to make you happy. Have some activities with your friends or your love. It's is important to move out from the comfort zone. For some ppl, just a little maybe enough. (I guess this is me coz am lazy..hahahaha) Improve doesn't mean need to change yourself. Personally, I dont really like ppl who try to change the way I am. I am who I am. wtf
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